Date: 2/9/2001 11:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 9651
oh i have the same probs too...this really does suck just try reasoning out...see if you really love him or is it just that you feel bad you broke up with him  |
Date: 2/9/2001 11:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 17487
Here's my point of view: Two years of ones life is quite an event. Your ex may be afraid of being alone so he plays on that. You fall into his little game and listen to each and every word of his. When separated from him, your true emotions and feelings come out...those are the feelings that you may want to listen to. The feelings of the heart are the ones that will guide you....StormTracker5  |
Date: 2/10/2001 12:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 18460
whew! sweet that is really confusing...i know how you feel, though i did not have that kind of experience yet...maybe you should spend more time together and really talk about things like that...it is soo hard to be with a guy when you are wishing to be with the other, do i make sense???...anyway good luck, talk it through...  |
Date: 2/10/2001 8:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 17915
well...i like what StormTracker5 said....thats what i would of told you...I also have the same problems, I just hope every thing works out. --  |
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Date: 2/10/2001 4:35:00 PM
well first how old are you? it kind of matters because well if you are real young you are going to have all kinds of feelings. There will be plenty of time for you to experience every feeling. i say go for this other guy, if breaking up felt good to you then you should do it for you and not him. if this other guy shares the same feelings then it is all the more reason you should take a chnce with a new guy! ~vivexo~( if you visit aol.homepages you can look at my advice page under rants |
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Date: 2/10/2001 5:30:00 PM
After dating a boy for two years, I can understand why he wouldn't want to break it off with you. He probally remembers all the times you said you loved him and all the laughs and the good times. He most likely thinks about all the nice things he had did for you, like the presents he gave you or all the places he took you. So if it is really over, drop out of his life until both of you have time to adjust to living without each other. After all he spent two years putting time, money, effort, and emotion into the realationship. Give him time. He may one day met another women he will fall in love with. |
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Date: 2/11/2001 3:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 25924
I honestly believe that being up front with someone is the kindest thing you can do even if you are breaking up with them and it will hurt at first. |
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Date: 2/12/2001 5:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 26942
well just break it off and do not talk to him and stay away! give it a while and he should stop calling and or coming around. you must be young. i feel that maybe you should consider not going with anyone for a while because jumping from one relationship to another is bad news. I ts hard but i am sure he will get the hint if you stand your ground |
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Date: 2/12/2001 10:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 19726
Give back everything he has ever given you... it is a slightly harsh way to get the point across, but I did this with one of my boyfriends, and we are now best friends - very supportive of each other. We have both grown to be happy for each other as we move into successful relationships! Good luck!! - Livvie |
Date: 2/22/2001 1:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 21912
i think u people are all wrong and she still loves her bf a lot, and maybe it would workout better i u tried to forget about this other boy from omeone who cares  |
Date: 10/13/2001 8:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 38751
i agree with storm tracker  |
