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Date: 2/9/2001 8:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 23367
there is really no better solution to this -and i know it sounds cheesy......just be yourself. not to act or sound conceited but the best way to approach others is to act or poise yourself...u know stand up straight and act as if your you are the best person in the world....things should change........hope this works!!!  |
Date: 2/9/2001 8:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 20835
Maybe going to the therapist more could help. I really have no clue as to what to say because I fell the same way that you do..  |
Date: 2/10/2001 8:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 10030
I know how i feels when people leave you out, believe me. and heres my advice, take action. *you* invite people to go places, or ask why you are left out? tell them how much it hurts. heh, that even worked with the loser friends i had, they included me more. ANd ya know what? If t dont work? ditch them, go make a new friend. remember that girl that sits alone at lunch? go talk to her. remember those kids you thought seemed nice, give em a ring. take action. andas the chat says, "new vitamen for makeing friends: B1" (somethign like that)  |
Date: 2/10/2001 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 21060
If they never invite yoou to anything maybe you should try and ivite them to go to the movies or something  |
| Date: 2/10/2001 4:50:00 PM smile alot and be as sweet as possible! at first then lower yourself as you get to know these people so they can slowly accept who you really are, i feel bad telling you to act a way you might not be but that truley is the way thing s are people acept people that wear nice clothes that are clean and are good looking. the good news is that even if you arent on the pretty side a good smile a great self esteem make all of the difference write back to me at my advice column if you want to tell me how things are going. [email protected] oh and one more thing the worst thing you can do is outright lie! its ok to act interested in the same things and do the cool stuff but dont outright lie. it is also ok to invite people out with you silly! just make sure it is someplace cool |
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Date: 2/10/2001 5:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 27161
First answer me some questions( dont worry I am not a stalker, pedofile, criminal etc I swear) 1)How old are you? if you are in your high school years (age 14-17) JUST BE YOURSELF, join some clubs that intrest you because the people there share the same intrest as you. 2) if you are in your middle school years (age 11-13) RELAX during this time. just have fun and be a kid do what you like the best, you have plenty of time make friends and here also just be yourself. If you are in elementry (age 5-10) SLOW WAY DOWN AND DO NOT WORRY these years can be the best time of your life belive me. how do I know all this well because I went through the same problem you did. I spent so much time on wondering how to impress people and make friends that even though I made friends I realized I was thinking of making others happy other than making me happy and finding out what others want rather than what I want. I am now eighteen and I look back at my younger years and say to myself " I wish I had just been myself and had fun" remember my advice and also if you need a friend to write to or talk to email me at [email protected] also look for some friends that are genuine and are not people that you in your heart know will betray you in the future I have been through all of this and know what I am talking about. also here is the most important rule: listen to your heart and trust yourself  |
| Date: 2/12/2001 10:43:00 AM From Authorid: 19726 Throw a party and invite EVERYONE!! Or join a club, band at school, etc... - Livvie |
| Date: 2/18/2001 3:45:00 PM From Authorid: 24304 I know exactly how you feel! Up until 11th grade I was the same way. But, it was only when I loosened up and chatted a lot with people that I really started to see everyone inviting me places and before I knew it I was having the time of my life. Don't worry if these people can't see the wonderfyul person you are then you deserve better. |
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