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I loathe the idea of my birthday this year ~DesertLotus

  Author:  22721  Category:(USM Events) Created:(9/7/2017 2:29:00 PM)
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For many reasons, but one of them is simply that nothing will ever change for me ever again. At least not for me in a good way.

With the loss of my independence, ability to drive, and medical situation, I just don't feel like I have anything left to celebrate anymore.

And the other milestone that's coming up for me would be menopause, and that is certainly no reason to celebrate. I will soon be growing my own beard, and won't be able to tell if it's winter or summer outside.

And then after that, I'll be able to tell if it's going to feel like rain when I get up

Then, it's it's going to be when oatmeal becomes too spicy for me.

And after that, it will be when I wake up in the middle of the night and I'm in a puddle. Hopefully it will be because the roof is leaking.



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Date: 9/7/2017 11:34:00 PM  From Authorid: 60395    I don't know anything about your medical issues but please don't give up hope! If all else fails you will always have your family here at USM. I know everything can pile up and feel overwhelming like life is closing in on you. Have you tried EFT/tapping therapy. It always helps me get out all of the bad feelings when I feel like there's no hope. Feel free to message me if you want any more info or if you ever need a friend. <3  
Date: 9/8/2017 7:49:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 22721    Thank you Bass Chick for your kind words. What I do currently is reflexology and Massage Therapy that always makes me feel better.  
Date: 9/9/2017 6:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 67327    I feel the same way too. I am 29 and I have never had independence, never even got a chance to learn how to drive due to my abusive family, and my medical situation is awful as well. Furthermore, I forget I have birthdays because no one IRL cares to tell me happy birthday because I am not important to anyone...which hurts a lot. I guess just... take each day a step at a time? I hope you feel better soon. -hugs-  
Date: 9/9/2017 8:09:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 22721    Thank you SuperEvilGenius.  
Date: 9/9/2017 5:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    Don't jump ship just yet, Desert Lotus. I have to agree that things certainly are different as we get older, but we will survive by adapting. Best to you and write on.....  
Date: 9/10/2017 6:40:00 AM  From Authorid: 35051    Sending my love to you, I am grateful we are connected in this community of souls.  
Date: 9/10/2017 8:27:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 22721    Thanks Kronk and Markkyman.  
Date: 9/23/2017 12:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 31765    I thought the same thing. Health problems..who would want someone like me? I'm a burden. I lose my balance. I walk funny. So I'll just spend the rest of my life alone.

Then Robert walked into my life. He turned everything around. He cared for me and that changed my thinking about myself. I had worth. I had value. He doesn't care that I walk funny or lose my balance. He takes me places and I'm for real walking again. He holds my hand and lends me his balance. I'm not even using my cane now. He natches his pace to mine. He's patient.

So there is someone for everyone. Birthdays are just numbers. There's someone for you who will understand and accept you for you. Be receptive to the possibility . Life is beautiful and amazing
  
Date: 9/23/2017 1:51:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 22721    Thanks Altaira. Maybe I'll have a Robert in my life one day. I like the idea of that.  

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