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Date: 12/9/2016 11:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 62927
This is so tough. I've been in these situations. Sometimes the endings include misunderstands, sometimes the endings include mean people- so mean deliberate people that if you rode in on a unicorn and glued a magic wand in their hand- they wouldn't get it, and yes there are other ways things turn out. All I can think of to say is be brave, be honorable, and be open minded to a different barrel of monkeys to play with.  |
Date: 12/9/2016 11:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 31765
You can get someone to help you manage your finances this means no one can take advantage of you or your check having your check stopped hurts you more than your parents. No income puts you in a very precarious situation. Message me any time if u can help.   |
Date: 12/9/2016 12:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
I'd see about getting a caregiver.  |
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Date: 12/9/2016 2:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 67327
Thank you so much, CeleticRiver! I absolutely appreciate the support. Thank you so much, Altaira, but I can not afford it. and sadly it is true, being broke is lame. Hopefully in a few months I can get back to receiving something again. Thank you for your support! Thank you all for your comments!  |
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Date: 12/9/2016 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
A confrontation with your parents is inevitable. Might be time to have a brutally honest conversation. But regardless, I with you luck in things getting resolved. |
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Date: 12/9/2016 11:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 67327
That is what I have done so many times. They are absolutely irrational and ridiculous. Thank you so much though! |
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Date: 12/10/2016 1:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 998
I'm wondering ... could you get your check auto-deposited into a checking account that only you control? That way your parents could not take the money. Also, maybe another way ... some companies that owe you money can give it to you on a visa or gift card. That way only the holder of the card (you) can spend it. I hope things will work out better for you soon. You deserve better.   |
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Date: 12/10/2016 4:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 67327
I was planning to create my own account online with mangomoney to have it deposited into later next year. hopefully when my parents least expect it. but they keep on pressuring me to give them money. hopefully they leave me alone soon and realize they need to stop depending on me for their stupid stuff. thank you so much for your comment, ginger! |
Date: 12/10/2016 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
That is tough. I had moved out and fended for myself. They're adults, they'll figure it out. It's sad that money has caused this problem with your family. I hope you can find positive support. Life is about setting boundaries. Take care of you.  |
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Date: 12/10/2016 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
If you have a bank account, get PayPal account, and transfer funds into a PayPal account. |
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Date: 12/10/2016 8:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 22721
And don't give Your parents money. If they want money and are no disabled, employment might be useful. |
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Date: 12/10/2016 10:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 67327
@mayuka, I wish I could move out, but I can not afford it. @desertlotus, I try hard to not give my parents money, but they are just brutes. Hopefully they will back off in the coming months. |
Date: 12/12/2016 11:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 10754
Depending on where you live, there may be assistance options for you to find your own place. As you are nearly thirty-years of age, YOU should control your own finances. Frankly, what your parents are doing is extorting you as a vulnerable adult.  |
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Date: 12/12/2016 7:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 67327
thank you, but sadly there is a two year wait on the housing because of all the people applying that also need housing. and yes, unfortunately. my parents are just terrible.  |
Date: 12/13/2016 7:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Sounds to me that your parents are taking advantage of your vulnerability and need hauling into line...it's your money not theirs. It's disgraceful to think that any parents would take advantage of their family like they are with you...It also sounds like you cannot stand up to them so you need someone to speak up for your rights, I'm sorry that you are going through this dear..  |
Date: 12/14/2016 7:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 62383
If you go with a checking account I recommend Etrade, you can use your account like a checking... after 90 days you need $300 either in or invested in your account. But besides checking you can always invest it as well, if you are careful you can make way more money than a savings account will pay. But investing can lose some money as well.  |
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