Date: 4/11/2016 8:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 64423
thank nani  |
Date: 4/11/2016 8:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I'm sorry that you are feeling so down dear and believe me I know what depression feels like...Support is what you need not a lecture about it being non existent..so sad that you cannot get that support from someone so close...can you talk to your doctor about it? I hope you can find some happiness on your special day and enjoy it HAPPY BIRTHDAY...*huge hugs*   |
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Date: 4/11/2016 9:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 64423
thanks zema i'm trying to get help ..hugs |
Date: 4/12/2016 7:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 22721
Depression is something I've had for 3/4 of my life. I don't think anyone understands it, unless they experience it. I don't talk to my mom about my depression, as she just dosent get it. Maybe don't talk to your mom, as it only stresses you out.
I give myself stuff to do. Repair my jewelry, organize my closet or bake brownies or cookies (yummy batter) or I listen to music or watch a movie. And look at a dancer known as Kevin Cornell...LOL  |
Date: 4/13/2016 12:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 28363
It's easy to feel depressed these days - with all the zombie movies and killing games, dreadful music and black arts being so prevalent. Sometimes you have to fill your brain with good things, good deeds, and positivism - Best wishes  |
Date: 4/15/2016 9:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 62927
Sorry I missed your birthday. I think I am new to you- I don't know who Bobby is, but as an outsider I know that on the inside we are all deeply connected and because it hurts loosing "Bobby" will take healing- so be patient with yourself. In my humble un-professional opinion hurts and depressions are the twisted sisters of life and the journeys to communicate with them are painful. So since I just got wind of your birthday today I think you deserve a second birthday today so "Happy Birthday to you". Flowing Forward.  |
Date: 4/15/2016 7:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 33573
So sorry for your loss and to hear you're going through this.  The thing about grief and pain - feelings in general - is that there are no set ways that we have to feel ... everyone is so unique and our experience's are so different that we really can't compare "my pain" to "your pain" or say that you have no reason to be depressed so you should get over it. Just because someone else is able to pull themselves out of a depressive state doesn't mean that someone else can do the same thing - we're all wired differently and with our experiences, support systems, etc. there's no one way guide. Sometimes we need that extra help to feel normal again, or at least on the upside to where we can feel like we are starting to function once again - it really takes so much strength to be able to function every day when someone is feeling so low, you're definitely not weak or pathetic. I hope you are able to find someone you can trust and talk with - even if it's not always directly about your feelings right away but just to get out with and someone who is a positive person in your life. It sounds like you are doing things already to that can be helpful, especially going for more walks - getting some fresh air, getting up and ready for each day, the art - some people find it helpful to write down one positive thing that happened before they go to bed too, even if it doesn't seem like a big deal ... I hope you're able to find some peace soon or some help to get moving in that direction because you deserve to feel better.  |
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Date: 4/19/2016 7:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 64423
thank you bobby was my dog my best friend |
