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Challenge Accepted! Better Late Than Never!

  Author:  36901  Category:(Discussion) Created:(10/1/2013 7:20:00 AM)
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My Papa (my mom's father) passed away Saturday. He has always been my rock. My heart is broken. I can't think. I can't feel. I miss him more than words can express.  He was a wonderful man and he did a lot for my family. I keep thinking that I'll never hear his voice again. When I cry, my kids remind that I'll see him again in Heaven and they tell me he is an angel. He didn't want a funeral or service of ANY KIND. He asked to be cremated. No viewing or anything. He was gone. It was over. That hurt me so much. I need closure. I also know that my Granny is doing what he asked. I will not say anything against that. She could tell I was having issues, so she has bought a beautiful memorial pendant for me and she is going to put some of his ashes in it. I told her that is perfect.  I still wish I had a "place to go" to say goodbye, but that's just me being selfish. I would never hurt her further by bringing it up. They were married 61 years. She knows what he wanted and what is best for her. That is the main thing.
 
 
I lost my job last month due to an ex family member that also works there. I say family member, but it's complicated. She was married to my step cousin years ago. She is a jealous and spiteful person. I am closer to her children than she is because she was away from them for a long time due to her using drugs. We didn't get along and she was one step higher than me, so her lies got me fired. I was there for 3 years with no problems whatsoever until she came along. You'd think I would be upset, but the moment it happened I was happy. So much stress and tension left my body. I have a lot of things in the works, so I'm not worried. Our bills are paid through the end of November and I should either have a job or unemplomment by then (praying for a job).  I am also going to try and go back to school. We'll bounce back. We always do.
 
 
 Joey will turn 5 in March. Payne just turned 3 last month. They are both strong healthy boys. We have been blessed for sure. Joey started pre-k this year. He is doing very well. He loves is!  These pictures were taken September 21st during Payne's birthday party. They are growing up WAY to fast for me. They are so smart and funny. As a lot of you know, I was told I would never have children. I call them my miracle babies.
 
 

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Date: 10/1/2013 8:15:00 AM  From Authorid: 30051    *hugs* I'm sorry for your loss. What beautiful boys you have and seeing your optimism in the face of adversity is inspiring. Thank you for sharing...more *hugs*  
Date: 10/1/2013 11:58:00 AM  From Authorid: 27705    sorry for your loss and about your job. your kids are adorable  
Date: 10/1/2013 1:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 998    Wow, you could have taken the the triple dog dare, and made this into 3 posts. Thanks for catching up with us. You have been with us through both of your miracle pregnancies and births. Through the ups and downs that life throws your way. I know you will get through this speed bump too. Best of luck to you in finding a job that you will be supported in, rather than being around someone making your time a living horror. You now will have the wind back in your sails.

Sorry to hear of your Papa's passing. You know, I had exactly the opposite reaction to my fathers big funeral. I didn't like seeing all the pomp and circumstance surrounding his death. Trumpets marking the occasion, feeling the pressure to take a handful of dirt and throw it down on his casket. I wanted to remember him in a quiet way .. my way.

Remember your Papa not just in one place where there is a marker with his name on it. Because if you ever need to move to another state or country, you will feel like your leaving him. Remember him each time you see something he loved, remember him each time you eat his favorite meal or dessert. Go to the places he loved to visit, then look to the heavens and wink at your Papa

That is what I have done to cope with my mothers passing, and it feels a little bit better.
  
Date: 10/1/2013 2:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 21903    Sorry for your loss; sounds like life hit a bit of a speed bump. At least you have those two beautiful boys to help keep you smiling!!  
Date: 10/1/2013 7:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 65583    Your grandmother although losing her son, has the greater blessing of having his legacy and greatest achievement in life which is you, still with her. Although it is a terrible thing to bury a child, to have the soul that the very same child brought into the world, being happy and strong is the greatest blessing any mother could have truly. You show your grandmother that your fathers blessings to this world still very much live on. You have your grandmother, and she has you, her sons greatest treasure.

Your father life on through you, and your grandmother is truly blessed to have you. Cherishing eachother is the greatest thing you can do for your own father. Honor her as she will honor you, and let go of the negative influences of spiteful people, that will only slow you down for no greatre purpose. All you must do is showing the strong caring character traits that you have been imbued with, something not many people have the blessing of carrying. Showing those children love is the most perfect and wonderful way to honor the person your father was.

Be who you are, and never give up hope, your father undoubtedly is watch pridefully, and feels the good you bring to htis world in his stead.

Your grandmother still has you, and treasures you.
Date: 10/2/2013 10:36:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 36901    Thank you all. I appreciate all of you and your kind words of love and advice. I'll write a better comment when I'm feeling better.

SolarEyes,

Just to clear things up, my Papa is my grandfather (not father). I appreciate your comment and sweet words Just the same.
  

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