Relationship

My birthdate is 02/19/1992, Jonathan's (my fiance) is 08/20/1988.

I'm not sure if this is a good question, if not I can try again. He just moved to my city and is working at a job that is "okay". We both don't care much for the hours. I am working part time and still going to school. We want to save up for a car/our licenses and would like to move in together soon. I know my parents would not be happy, but I feel that I should do what makes me happy as long as he and I can support each other financially. I would like to have a full-time job before moving together, but I don't feel that what I'm studying is going to be relevant to my careers. I'm studying Business Management (but I'm not management material and have pretty extreme social anxiety) and also Medical Billing/Coding, but I don't know if that's what I really want. I'm 21 and still feel so clueless as to what I should do with my life. Nothing jumps out at me.

I want to know if we will move in together while saving up for the wedding, or if it's even a good idea. Would it strain my relationship with my parents? I would also like to know what's in store for our future careers, as it is imperative to moving in.

(I hope I did this right...)

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