Date: 10/21/2011 9:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 2508
Sorry about any typos it's hard typing on this iPad  |
Date: 10/21/2011 9:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 64365
He needs to pay up, sweetie...I agree. I'm sorry that you are going through this.  |
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Date: 10/21/2011 9:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 2508
Thanks nani... It's getting hard |
Date: 10/21/2011 9:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 14314
No, you are not being unreasonable, it is your wedding and you are right to be upset about this, he has no right to get mad at you *hugs* God Bless  |
Date: 10/21/2011 9:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 2508
I'm so mad I can't see straight!!! I don't know what to do other than wait it out
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Date: 10/21/2011 10:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
im assuming its because he doesnt have the money to pay it right now? go to lunch with him, take the papers and talk it out. and if he cant pay within the week then you make the call and make him talk. ill kick his butt if he ruins your wedding!!!!!!!!!!  |
Date: 10/21/2011 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 45684
I agree with Kari: take him to lunch and calmly (which is hard!) explain to him everything one more time. Ask him why he is having such a hard time with the whole thing. After that, if he's still being a jerk, I would tell him if he doesn't call and cancel his spot, you will never, ever forgive him. There is no excuse to ruin someone's wedding. I am the maid of honor in my niece's wedding, which is happening in Mexico. I would NEVER EVER pull this kind of crap on her. Weddings are stressful enough as it is! I hope you can get things worked out!  |
Date: 10/22/2011 4:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 21435
This may sound harsh but, I'd tell him that he's out. He can eat his deposit and the wedding goes on without him. It's obvious he doesn't care, so why prolong the agony.  |
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Date: 10/22/2011 6:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
evidently he is wanting you to pay his way? Gee...I think I would go ahead and opt him out, and find someone else who has already paid to stand in...he's had a year to pay for it, knew it was coming, made his promises, and now he's backing out sneakily and trying to make it sound like you will either have to foot the bill or do without... |
Date: 10/22/2011 7:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
You can't take the chance that one person will ruin your whole wedding! I'd say you have several options, have someone else talk to him to explain things if he won't listen to you. If he still won't listen, he is out.  |
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Date: 10/22/2011 7:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
Could your fiance talk to him?? |
Date: 10/23/2011 7:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 36901
If he didn't intend to pay for it, he should have told you upfront so you could find someone else. He could have been saving since he knew a year in advance. Don't let him ruin this for you!  |
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Date: 10/23/2011 6:55:00 PM ( S-Admin )
Thanks everyone I took the advice of talking to him more calmly and everything is worked out now thanks again |
