Date: 1/17/2011 6:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 28767
Honestly, the truest path to enlightenment is total honesty. No one should ever be afraid or fear being rejected because of what they feel. We reflect a lot of our emotion's onto other people and object's. People are a direct reflection of how we feel about ourselves. This is the hardest thing to learn. But, what you see in other people is a direct reflection of what we see in ourselves. People can see the same thing but, in a hundred different ways.  |
Date: 1/17/2011 7:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Being honest in a nice way is the best....I know there has been times when I knew or felt that my honesty could hurt one's feelings so I don't comment at all and find a way out of the question...I suppose it depends on the type of question, and the person involved, but I do try to be honest with everyone but at the same time I would never dream of hurting one's feelings if it can be avoided..I'm up against this situation quite often, and my honest answers are always done in a nice way..  |
Date: 1/17/2011 8:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 62798
Thanks! I think that tact is underutilized these days  |
Date: 1/18/2011 1:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 42703
I agree with Zema. I think alot of it is the words you use when you are honest. I don't want to come off as being "fake" so I am as honest as I can be, although fully taking in consideration the person I am talking to. So I choose my words very carefully (most of the time).  |
Date: 1/19/2011 9:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
I think that it's good to be honest but sometimes it's good to reflect on a situation before you voice an opinion. In the heat of the moment, things can be said that would not improve a situation. So honesty is great if you're willing to accept the consequences of your honesty.
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Date: 1/19/2011 12:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
i guess nothing would change for me. i'm blunt. i don't sugar coat anything and i call it as i see it. i'm not really mean but i can be if i need to be. so i guess nothing would change for me.  |
Date: 1/20/2011 4:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
I agree with my Grammy.. Zema,   |
Date: 1/21/2011 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
I agree with zema all the way  |
