Date: 9/9/2010 3:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 63026
I'm a both a fixer upper and nice guy. I guess It depends on who you are and how much you love the person.  |
Date: 9/9/2010 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
I think it is a combination of both that works best. Also if she isn't feeling anything for this guy then you shouldn't push it on her. Also I've noticed people do the opposite of what they are told they should do.  |
Date: 9/9/2010 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
the more you push the more she's gonna pull. i don't know how old your friend is but sometimes people just need to figure things out for themselves. my daughter had a couple of guys with daddy issues. she almost had to be mommy. she finally woke up and saw that she was just going the same way with all of them. so she found her an adult male. he's just 6 years older but she's always been more mature than her age so it works.  |
Date: 9/9/2010 4:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 64414
Honestly...it is neither. Not about how he treats her, nor about how she feels about him....it is all about how he makes her feel about herself.  |
Date: 9/9/2010 5:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
It has to be both. If she doesn't have deep feelings for him, then she'll never be satisfied with the relationship. On the other hand, it sometimes takes time to figure out what your feelings are, which is the point of dating.  |
Date: 9/10/2010 7:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 51635
I've seen plenty of people fall in love and stay with people who treat them like crap. I've seen others stay with people because of how they are treated. The happiest people I've seen are those who are in love and treat each other with respect, honesty and who do those little things that just make each other smile.  |
Date: 9/11/2010 5:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
ummm, How someone treats you is a must, but there is absolutly no relationship if you don't have feelings for him.  |
Date: 9/11/2010 7:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
ReeRun said it PERFECTLY.  |
Date: 9/11/2010 11:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 37843
A guy can treat a girl like gold and vice versa, but if there is no chemistry, no feelings, then it just won't work out. Physical attraction can bring a couple together but it takes chemistry to keep them together, or atleast it keeps them from drifting apart physically or emotionally. Yeah there are other factors as well but it sounds to me like this is the main problem... I could be wrong though. How he treats her is a big factor as well.  |
Date: 9/15/2010 9:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 12103
I think someone can treat you really nice and be a great guy, but you just dont have thoese feelings for them.  |
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