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Date: 1/17/2010 9:39:00 PM ( Admin )
 aww h x 1000.. that's how it is with those that are close to you.. -Love Rad.. |
Date: 1/17/2010 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 26649
Maybe he was near you. Not to scare you and I don't how much I believe into stuff like this myself. But maybe he was in your presence and you could feel him around you. That is why you are so tearful today. Just remember its okay to cry about somebody that has passed. I feel like sometimes you cant cry sorrow tears for some that have passed. You should cry happy tears to show that you still remember them and you remember the good times that you had together. The life that you lived with that person. So if you cried really hard today well maybe you need to relive some of the happy times you had together. You've been having a stressful week , maybe and well maybe your mind relaxed a little to much and you went into a state where he was and that brought it.. I dont know much more to say but other than its okay to have days like that.. You need to let it out sometimes. Just cry happy tears! And Maybe he was near you  |
Date: 1/17/2010 10:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 10075
Im very sorry to hear about his passing and the sorrow its causing. As ShaggyShoe says cry the tears and let it out but then remember your friend would not want you to be so sad. Im sure he would want you to remember the happy times and be glad in your heart. xxx  |
Date: 1/17/2010 11:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 34078
Sunshine, if you look through the tears you'll see a rainbow!  |
Date: 1/17/2010 11:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
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Date: 1/18/2010 1:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 49091
I agree with Shaggy. The night my gma passed away I was in the shower when my mom found out n I was just standin there n burst into tears n couldnt stop crying and when I got out I was like why am I crying? I have no reason to be crying! N when I came out of my room, my mom said while I was in the shower, she got the call that my grandma had died. I knew she had come to see over me once more before she left and thats why I was so upset. It was a little settle of emotion for me, but I still burst into tears just like I did the first time I walked in her house n she wasnt there or the first time I was in her room n she wasnt. It still hits me very hard n it's been 2 years. Dont be afraid to talk to him, he's def listening.  |
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Date: 1/18/2010 8:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 64747
I feel like this about my Nanny. She will be dead 3 years this month and its around this time I start to really think about her and everything she has done for me when she was here. It hurts me to think that I did take her for granted and didn't appericate everything, little or small she had done for me. But theres times when I sit down and think of her and can feel her near. Its ok to cry no matter how long the loved one has past. It just shows that they are in our hearts and thoughts forever.  |
Date: 1/18/2010 1:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
That happens sometimes perhaps he is around or something triggered it. Sending lots of your way.  |
Date: 1/18/2010 1:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
@}~~ I understand your pain, yes, I really do and when the pain hits me, I ride the tide of tears. There is nothing we can do to stop it so we just have to ride along with it and reflect back at the good things that person brought into our lives.   |
Date: 1/18/2010 4:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
There's no timeline for grief. It passes on its own accord. I'm sorry for your loss and wish I knew what to say to make it better. If I did, I'd maybe be able to deal with some of my own. They say time heals all wounds. It's just that no one knows how much time. Feel better.  |
Date: 1/18/2010 8:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 2508
thanks everyone..i feel alittle better today. i guess some days i feel like im dreaming and tmrw he will call or write me on myspace..but its not a dream..years have gone by ..ive grown yet im still lost.  |
Date: 1/19/2010 4:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 13546
Oh sweetie first off I am sorry for your loss. I know how this can be as well, people make a huge impact on your life and when they are not there anymore, it leaves a big hole inside. You miss them so much that sometimes the emotions get bottled up and release when you least expect them.  |
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