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Date: 10/7/2009 4:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 64365
At least she has the courage to try to heal. So many people continue to isolate rather than face issues and leave them behind. Continued support through therapy and counseling, and the willing shoulder of a good friend seems to me might be the best thing right now.  |
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Date: 10/7/2009 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 21867
...online diagnosis is like attempting to parachute from a plane using a pillow-case...never the wisest thing to do... ...however, I'd be also suggesting that your friend look at accessing some other professional assistance - probably from a Psychologist rather than a Psychiatrist. From the very little you've shared *steps out on wing of plane holding pillow-case* theres a slight whiff of some Personality Disorder in there as well. *leaps off plane and holds pillowcase above head* Thats not a bad thing, or a black mark or anything...we all through our lives and pur experiences develop coping strategies, ways to make it through whatever issues we have in our lives. Some times that can result in some pretty deep-seated ways of being which tends to require a bit more focussed assistance to heal that just sittting and having a chat. Those ways of being become our habits and then our norms. They then become our default-settings in our minds, our bodies and how we go about our lives. ...so there may be a need there to access a bit more specialised assistance to chip away and those deeper embedded ways of being that are now within the subconscious level. What can you do? Simple really. Be her anchor. Just be you. Be the you that you have always been. Do what you always have done. That consistancy of unwavering friendship. That rigidity of belief in her. That constant dependable firm *rock* that she has within you will help immensely. Particularly IF there is any Personality element in there. Peace.  |
Date: 10/7/2009 8:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
There you go, listen to Agent Smith..  |
Date: 10/7/2009 10:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 7710
Hmmm, I can sympathize with your friend. I've thought of seeking counseling myself.  |
Date: 10/8/2009 3:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 16916
Agent Smith hit the nail on the head.  |
Date: 10/8/2009 2:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 62766
Give her my email, I will befriend her. frorreal  |
Date: 10/8/2009 9:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
This is not something anyone can just fix she needs a professional like Psychologist, It's understandable she has these issues considering where she came from. I hope She heals, Cause I can in some ways relate to what was said about her. All you and anyone can really do is be there for her and be patient. Please don't abandon her, She will get better if you give her a chance. BTW Agent smith said it better than me.  |
Date: 10/8/2009 9:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 12341
Agent Smith is a good advisor, his comments are always salve to my soul.  |
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