Date: 9/9/2009 10:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 49101
Move On. If those people aren't worth your time (and it is sad to look at it that way but sometimes that's how it is) Move On. You don't have to abandon the friendships, but you can abandon the drama attached to it.  |
Date: 9/9/2009 10:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I don't think you necessarily have to wipe them from your life completely. Go out, find some activities where you meet more positive people and gradually you'll outgrow your old friends naturally.  |
Date: 9/9/2009 3:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
Dude I feel like you right now. I just turned 24 and all my friends are over 20 years old or atleast pushing 20, so to put it all in perspective, they are ADULTS. Well, seems like my "friends" aren't acting their age.. still acting very childish and it gets old after a while, there comes a point in ones life to GROW UP not just PHYSICALLY but MENTALLY, I'm realizing that the only way I'm going to fix this problem is to DROP THEM and start over new. It's hard, it really is.. I've cut so many people out of my life friends wise as is, but it's the best thing I could have done, I'm happier. Less crap to deal with from childish people.  |
Date: 9/9/2009 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 64365
If you can learn to be your own best friend, you will never be alone. You don't need friends to validate you, they are just the icing on the cake...and you have the power to choose how sweet that icing is.  |
Date: 9/9/2009 7:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
^^^very wise words^^^  |
Date: 9/9/2009 8:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 21903
Move here and be my friend. I'm shopping for some right now. 
lol, I wish I could be more helpful, but all I can really do is say good for you! Good Lord, no one needs to stick around a bunch of negative nannies all the time. It just brings too much negative energy into your life and you don't need that. Hold your head up and be brave!! I am quite sure you'll make more friends...I know you will. Have faith hon!   |
Date: 9/9/2009 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Well all I can suggest is that you learn to love yourself first and foremost and once you can realize that you are your best friend, you will see these people for whom they are and you will also realize that you do not need friends like that. *hugs*  |
Date: 9/9/2009 11:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 7710
I'd rather have no friends than a bunch of negative friends. All negative people do is bring you down. And I'm sure you'll find that not all of your friends are negative influences. 1 true friend is worth more than a handful of phony friends.  |
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