Date: 7/6/2009 2:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
I feel sorry for the baby she is carrying. If it were me, I'd stick around for the baby's sake because that's just how I am. I don't know if that's even an option for you. It would be hard considering the type of person she seems to be. I really don't know what to tell you. I'm sure you'll do what you think is best. Good luck with the situation.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 2:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 61897
She needs to grown up and mature, but it sounds like not even this baby will help her to do that. I feel very sorry for that poor child and the poor sucker who's the father. Your friend sounds very manipualtive and like she uses her sexuality to get her way a lot.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 2:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
She stopped being your "friend" a long time ago. Move along & pray for her unborn child.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 2:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
And your problem is?
You already know you don't want to be friends with her so don't. She's not going to change no matter what you or anyone else says she needs to learn to make the mistakes on her own and she needs to learn to stand on her own two feet not someone else's.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 3:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 21764
yeah you def don't need a friend like that.. i'd be polite but move on and seriously distance myself.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 4:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
She's not a friend at all! I'm sorry, but she's just going to keep taking advantage of u once she has the kid. I feel bad for the kid, but it's not ur problem. You said urself u don't want to be her friend. End of story.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 4:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 13636
I honestly don't understand what her having a baby has to do with you. That's her responsibility not yours. She's a jerk, I'd dump her out of your life.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 4:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Sorry sweetie but I think you need to move along without her so called friendship. I feel sorry for the little baby she will have.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 5:22:00 PM ( Admin )
Time for him and you to find a real friend.
She is very needy and qill do pretty much anything to get attention (it sounds like).
-Rad. |
Date: 7/6/2009 5:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 64365
...she's not having your baby, so how is that abandoning her. If you're tired, your're tired. It's not your drama, so don't claim it. HUGS  |
Date: 7/6/2009 5:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 13119
friends who just won't step up and tell their friends what they really think, you know the kind that want to drop their friends but won't tell them why. hmmm.  |
Date: 7/6/2009 5:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 15677
be honest an walk  |
Date: 7/6/2009 6:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 33401
You don't have to take her problems. Go on and live your life. She's just another one of those energy suckers out there. Love,  |
Date: 7/6/2009 9:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 30621
I agree with Farlo. (((( energy sucker))))  |
Date: 7/7/2009 6:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
@}~~ "Energy Suckers" I like that one Fargo, listen to Fargo, it's the right advice.  |
Date: 7/7/2009 11:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
It doesn't sound like a friendship to me. I try to surround myself with people that live their lives in a very positive fashion. If I met someone like you're describing, I wouldn't let them get too close to me.  |
Date: 7/7/2009 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 46486
People who don't and won't help themselves get x'd out for good in my life. There's a point in someones life when its time for them to grow up and lay off of the drama.  |
Date: 7/7/2009 2:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 39321
You choose your own path hon. Let her go. I tried helping a friend like that for a long time. This last time I helped her... it was because her boyfriend put a move on me. I've never had problems with anyone stealing any guy I liked... but she would always accuse me of wanting her boyfriends. I never did. I told her her boyfriend had tried to get with me and she wanted to confront him. When she did, he turned it around and said it was me wanting him. I was engaged at the time about to get married. The thought of it was just so stupid. Whats sad... is that she believe him. I immediately said bye bye to her. Sometimes... you just gotta let people make their own mistakes.  |
Date: 7/7/2009 4:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 57079
Yea, I've got a "friend" that sounds just like the "friend" you are describing, my "friend" has the most adorable daughter, who I love, but I had to quit talking to my "friend" because she was 100% drama 100% of the time, and had the nerve to say I was a bad friend and she did nothing but be a good friend to me, I just laughed at that and quit talking to her, it's sad that people get so caught up in themselves that they can't even try to respect the people they try to call friends. My advise is, as much as you want to be there for the baby, don't, she's not going to change her ways and you shouldn't have to take that from anything.  |
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