Date: 3/12/2009 10:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 48250
It's a possibility I would think.....but perhaps more of a personal choice....I wouldn't allow past relationships determine Your future relationships, whether they were good or bad., especially one with that "Special Someone"-- we all are the same yet different in other ways----I believe each individual has something unique about them that no one else has, therefore I would not base a relationship on ones from the past, it wouldn't be fair or right either for that matter......~Best Wishes~..T/C  |
Date: 3/12/2009 11:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 30742
Na.. I think we are just naturally drawn to people with similar personalities and features.  |
Date: 3/12/2009 11:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 11199
i think that we are drawn to people who have they same personality characteristics as our first love.  |
Date: 3/12/2009 11:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
I really hope not, because my first love was a horrible person...I just didn't see it at the time 
Although saying that, all the people I've been out with so far have been fairly narcissitic...so maybe that is a trend.  |
Date: 3/12/2009 1:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
I dont think so. I think some people stay the same and are always attracted to the same type of people. I think most people change though. My first boyfriend was unattractive, over weight, dark hair, hairy, talked alot of stuff and ever not it done (lets be fair though, he was a nice guy and sweet).....I've dated white guys, black guys..guys with orange hair, blonde, dark, and now the guy I'm currently with and have been with for several years is asian..go figure  |
Date: 3/12/2009 1:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 21903
Well, I think you could look really deep into it and say there is a specific reason you're attracted to that type. But I kinda think some people just have a 'type.' lol. I don't really have a "type," never have...who knows.  |
Date: 3/12/2009 1:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 21764
um yes, i fell for a big doofus at first then realized what a real man was all about when i met my husband.. i was not gonna let him get away from me.   |
Date: 3/12/2009 5:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
You know, some people are different...my first boyfriend was totally the opposite to my fiancee now....and I love him even more.  |
Date: 3/12/2009 10:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
You now, my first love, the guy I lost my you know what to, was a red head. I found him cute,l and attractive, red hair and freckles. Now for some reason, I cannot stand red heads, I think most of them are hideous, almost unnatural and freaky haha. Now I've noticed I enjoy mixed breeds, my boyfriend is Mexican and German, my last was Indian and Irish, the one before him was Samoan and Irish! I totally have a thing for darker guys with lighter features, if that makes any sense at all.  |
Date: 3/13/2009 4:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 61966
Maybe we are attracted to the same kind or one type of person. I don't think it's always true for everyone though, many people go for the exact opposite. I think it's more just preference.  |
Date: 3/16/2009 6:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 37101
Every person you love affects who you choose in the future. You choose their admirable traits to find in your next love. Then, you try to ensure that your next pick doesn't have some of the unfortunate traits that makes you ex-, your ex. It's a continuous process. That's why views and opinions change over time. -  |
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