Date: 10/16/2008 9:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
You know I would do exactly as you have been doing and avoiding him. And, your ex is your ex so, if he can't believe you for whom you are that's all he ever will be is an ex. ((HUGS)) Don't beat yourself up over this and you are the victim whom shouldn't have to justify her reasonings further more drink is not an excuse!  |
Date: 10/16/2008 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
I agree with TADA. You shouldn't have to justify yourself to him. He should have been a lot more caring and understanding...especially since you are obviously upset. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. *hugs* Hon, I know how hard it is to tell someone about something like that. It's embarassing and so violating. But don't let your ex should NEVER have called you a liar for something like that.  |
Date: 10/16/2008 9:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 49689
On the contrary to what Angi said,confront the friend about it,and tell him that what he did was inappropriate,and how it made you feel and if it happens again you will be contacting the police and if your "ex" doesn't get the picture,than maybe it's best that he remain your ex..jmo  |
Date: 10/16/2008 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
Oh, Py I didn't mean that she shouldn't report it just, that making her feel as if, she was in the wrong was in no way the appropriate actions |
Date: 10/16/2008 9:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
We were talking about getting back together and such and we had a rocky spot so hes not here at the moment but I believe if he can't believe on something thats at a level this serious and his friends are over me, its a deal breaker. Its a lot of stuff thats stressing me about him, we only have sex when HE wants to doesn't matter if I want to and he also said sometimes he doesn't want to give me a chance to be with him but if (put some actress's name here, can't remember who he said) walked up to him, he'd give her a chance. I've been getting him out of jail and letting him stay with me and doing everything for him, I just don't know how to feel. But its not all bad all the time.  |
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Date: 10/16/2008 9:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
Sweetie, this is a relationship that is going nowhere fast you need to quit enabling him and if, he can't be there for you when, you need him then, he will always only be there when he needs you ((HUGS)) |
Date: 10/16/2008 10:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
Sorry, but he wants you on is terms, which shouldn't be. You should be able to compromise. And if he can't figure out that you are telling the truth (he did ask why you didn't like his friend ~ why make up something like that, when he asks??) I think he is just using you. He should be furious with his friend! Well, those are just my opinions anyway.  |
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Date: 10/16/2008 10:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 25390
"I've been getting him out of jail and letting him stay with me and doing everything for him" Hon...there's your answer right there. If he's in and out of jail that often...he knows you are there to bail him out every time. He's using you hon. |
Date: 10/16/2008 10:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
Well just for what your ex said to you about not believing you would have been enough for me...I'd of packed his things and kicked him to the kerb and told him to take his friend with him....  |
Date: 10/16/2008 11:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
Forget both those guys you don't need that. Good luck  |
Date: 10/17/2008 1:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
Totally inappropriate.. I'd leave both of them in the past.  |
Date: 10/17/2008 6:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 15677
i would simply tell him if you dont have the faith to believe in me then marraige is out of the question. my hubby has a friend like this and hes not allowed around us anymore. i think he got the hint the last time i slapped him right across the chops.  |
Date: 10/17/2008 7:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 62722
Bail out, these guys sound like a whole lot of bad news, you are loyal and are not due such treatment by either, once they are out of your life you will be happier.  |
Date: 10/17/2008 10:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 63241
^^I'm with them.  |
Date: 10/17/2008 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 39440
sorry if this is mean but the guy is a loser. he is using you to get his "pleasure" thats all. besides if says the things he says and chooses to believe a friend over you then well honey he just isnt worth it. kick his worthless butt to the curb. you are better than him and you deserve better. get away from this loser for good.  |
