Date: 4/5/2008 3:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
Personally, I think you should clear the air now before, it is to late and you have regrets later.  |
Date: 4/5/2008 3:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 15157
Yes I agree what Angi said...Please go tell them you love them and you will see they love you too!  |
Date: 4/5/2008 3:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 22433
I agree with TexasAngi...clear the air now before it's too late. I say this because I envy people who are in their late teens/early 20's and older, who still have their grandparents. I lost 3 of mine before I was 14, and the 4th one who passed last June, had Alzheimers and had been mentally gone for 3 years prior. You don't know how lucky you are to be able to visit your grandparents still...enjoy it   |
Date: 4/5/2008 4:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 64566
I agree with the above replies. The sooner you do it the quicker you will get over it before something happens and you might regret later. .........Clifford  |
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Date: 4/5/2008 4:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 64607
I have been where you are at, in fact for most of my adult life, trying to make everybody happy but I wasn't being me! Hold your head up with pride in who you are without any apologies necessary to anyone and go see them with confidence and a smile on your face. It is obvious you want and need to go. Forget the what ifs and what was and show them who you are now. Enjoy their presence in your life because things can change quickly and life is too short for regrets. |
Date: 4/5/2008 4:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52140
Thanks guys!!  |
Date: 4/5/2008 4:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I never knew any of my grandparents they were all gone before I was born. In saying that and me being a grandparent myself, I have to say that though your grandfather may have seemed mean to you, at least he did talk with you however demeaning in your mind he was, some people say things how they see it, without giving a thought of how it may sound to the listener. Now your dear grandmother has been without your company because of how you felt about your grandfather which is so sad....It's never to late, go see them, hug them, tell them you love them and I'm sure you will be rewarded ten times over in the joy it will bring to them. I wish you and your grandparents well dear and by visiting them now, you will never regret it, life is too short, especially for them now...*hugs*  |
Date: 4/5/2008 5:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 21839
I know this is hard for you, you are your own person & you live your life, please don't leave for basic without going to see them, you never know when someones time will come when they are no longer with us. Please spend time with them while you can, one day they will not be here. I hope that you won't regret it as you get older. we all regret things in life when we were younger, make sure you tell them you love them before you leave...they love you & want the best for you.. they may just not know how to show it... *hugs*  |
Date: 4/5/2008 6:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 63831
just try to focus on some of the positive things. i know its going to be hard, but its one of those things that you just have to do. i wish you the best of luck. and just remember; you can choose you friends but you cant choose your family, they were given to you for a reason, its just something you have to work with. good luck! *hugs*  |
Date: 4/5/2008 7:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 31531
I don't have advice for you.Butttttttt Go !you will feel much better,No matter what they say They love you very much.Just keep that thought and you'll do find.Good luck on basic training.>>>HUGS>>>  |
