Date: 5/1/2005 8:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 3263
Whoa! I'm waiting for Jerry Springer to interrupt for a commercial break |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
Ha! lots of drama huh? :-p |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
wow, I hope for the baby's sake that all will work out. |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:54:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
My brother is going to take her to court over the baby, because seriously, shes 19..this is her thrid kid and she can't even suppot them |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 63118
you go girl!if someone fights u fight them bak |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:55:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
Ha I had the cops say the same thing to me..and they were like "let me ask you something..was it worth your jail time..did you beat her up!?" and I was like "yes officers..its been well worth my time!" and left with me a smile on my face |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
LOL@DC! The girl sounds like a pycho. I think you could have handled things a little differently, but I can see where you are coming from. I hope everything works out and you and your brother don't get into anymore trouble over this. |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 63077
Hmm. I can understand you going to jail for excessive force and all of that, but there's no way she'll get away with trespassing and assault and battery and what-have-you. USMC0705 |
Date: 5/1/2005 8:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
It went by way too fast, I had no idea I had hit her that much or that bad |
Date: 5/1/2005 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
I've been in situations like that. Sometimes you don't really have time to think...you just react. |
Date: 5/1/2005 9:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 63077
I most definitely believe you that you didn't know, more than once I've beaten somebody way worse than I needed or even wanted to, but unfortunately, ignorance is not a defense. USMC0705 (if only it was! I'd run the world by now!) :-D |
Date: 5/1/2005 10:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
you should have called the cops as soon as she forced herself into your house. now YOU will have a record, have to go to court, be out a good chunk of money, not to mention your brother will have to face the same things.. Doesn't sound like it was worth it to me. |
Date: 5/1/2005 10:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 37872
Wow, seems that you have some family issues here. Do you really want to involve the legal system into this? Things can get alot more complicated. First, I would start with holding off on the violence, doesn't matter who started it. Then, I don't know, but throwing family members into jail is a hard thing to take back. |
Date: 5/1/2005 10:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 52612
You went to jail again ? I had to bail u out last time lol I dont think there's any chances she'll win the case, I mean she hit your brother with the baby in hands and then hit you.. is there something wrong with her ?.. |
Date: 5/1/2005 10:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
this is my first time to jail Evil so HA! :-p but when it comes to people hitting me then I just can't hold my temper back..I know I have a bad temper and its gotten me into trouble many of times ask Evil! Hes seen my temper! |
Date: 5/1/2005 11:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
LMBO @ DeeCee..>I was SOOOO thinkin' the same thing! V&B..I hope it works out in your favor...and am sorry that your brother was ever involved with such a person. |
Date: 5/2/2005 12:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 20956
i was thinking the same thing Dark Crow! Well what ever happens i hope it works out for the baby's sake |
Date: 5/2/2005 2:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 37843
I can see where u r coming from I would have done the same thing had I been in the same situation. I don't know if she could win the case since it is your family's word against her's, but it depends on the judge and stuff. Good luck! |
Date: 5/2/2005 2:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 62104
What do you want people to say? I do not condone violence and though she struck you first, you didn't have the right to hit her back. It's just wrong on all levels. Why didn't you just call the police when she started on you? Now you've got a record of assult and battery. Doesn't look too good. |
Date: 5/2/2005 5:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 8905
I would of done the same thing honestly. As to whether or not she can win the case.... If you have proof of damages to your household, as well as a witness stating that she indeed did hit you first, not to mention put her child in danger, then she shouldnt be able to win the case. I hope that Im right.... because someone like that doesnt deserve a child..... |
Date: 5/2/2005 5:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I didn't really understand the first part. Did she freak because she thought your brother was keeping the baby for good? Did she know your brother was taking the baby in the first place? There has to be a reason she became unhinged, unless she has a little post-baby depression going on. |
Date: 5/2/2005 7:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 62752
i know allto well about this kinda thing... me and my brothers ex the mother of his one kid got mad at me once and hit me and i said ur preg its a felony to hit u, u touch me again im gonna knock ur head off.. i hate that i have a bad temper.. so i left and she kept it up calling me and stuff showed up to my house where my dad was and she all came in and was all like lets go.. i kept lookin at her stomach thinking ill go to jail if i hit her, finally my dad said kristen hit her, i was like i cant.. i went to walk away and she came behind me and grabbed my hair i swong around hit her in the face she flew over the couch and my dad laughed but i didnt think it was funny but what do u do when someone wont leave u alone... GRRR but she got up and left then my brother was all mad it was crazy but she didnt call the cops i should have tho coming to my house lol |
Date: 5/2/2005 8:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 62881
All of you will probably be charged with something...try to control yourself next time...if there is a next time...which I hope for all of you that there isn't. |
Date: 5/2/2005 9:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 53659
this is a tough one and having been in some tough spots it is usually the one who started the whole thing that gets away with it |
Date: 5/2/2005 9:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 53284
Although it's often hard to think in a situation like that, it would have been better had you called the cops as soon as she struck you. Now, everyone that was involved will be pressing charges against each other and the mess will be that much harder to clean up. Now would be a good time to think up a long term strategy for dealing with her so that you and your family will look better when you get to court. |
Date: 5/2/2005 9:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 63101
I hope everything works out for you and your family |
Date: 5/2/2005 10:46:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
Really, I have no idea what she was thinking when he called and said he would keep the baby..the woman is freaking mad!! and I don't know about you Blue Heaven but when people come in MY house and throw MY stuff and hit me..I have every right in the world to defend myself and knock her out |
Date: 5/2/2005 11:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 60685
Any judge with half a brain wouldn't buy her crap, she not only broke into your home, she vandalized by breaking things, hit both you and your brother with no regard to her daughter, if anything what you did is called self defense. |
Date: 5/2/2005 11:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 14909
Get a lawyer now!!!! |
Date: 5/2/2005 12:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
wait, your brother called her and told her he was keeping the baby? does the phrase kidnapping mean anything to you? |
Date: 5/2/2005 4:16:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
Does the phrase you can't kidnap your own child mean anything to you?? |
Date: 5/2/2005 5:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
you absolutely can kidnap your own child. It happens everyday. |
Date: 5/2/2005 5:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
you know who I feel for here? I feel for this poor 4 month old who obviously has little to no chance of ever growing up to be a healthy adult in this type of enviroment. Get your family some help, or tell your brother to put this kid up for adoption. That is the only way this kid has a chance. |
Date: 5/2/2005 6:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
See, you don't know me or my family or what kind of enviroment this child lives in so I suggest you not say anything unless you know EVERYTHING and you can't kidnap your own kid unless you have no rights over them. And my family doesn't need any help, just her..thank you very much |
Date: 5/2/2005 7:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 52155
I can tell quite a bit from this post, thank you very much... |
Date: 5/2/2005 10:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
This is the first time anything like this has ever happend |
Date: 5/2/2005 10:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
And Eddo, If I sounded rude at any point then my apologies :-) Im not trying to sound rude here |
Date: 5/3/2005 7:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 52155
and I am not trying to sound rude either. |
Date: 5/3/2005 10:37:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57074
I regret to say,Eddo, that my brother and that girl are back together 0_0. Heh do you know how odd I feel around her now?! :-p |