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Date: 7/17/2004 11:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
I hope that everything works out for you hunny, sometimes its best to forget about the takers and concentrate on the givers...move forward in your life sweetie, worry about your own immediate family, they are the ones who count for you...sorry you have this going on in your life ....hugs  |
| Date: 7/18/2004 12:57:00 AM ( Admin ) One thing to always remember, no matter what you think others are thinking your probably wrong. You believe certain things and you hope things can get better, you try to think of how this could happen, but there are cases where you have to let it go and move on. I have had friends that I once loved and they chose a different path that I could not follow. To let them go is hard but must be done, for they do not think as I do and no matter how I think about it I can't change them. |
Date: 7/18/2004 11:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 62588
How old is your brother? I'm assuming that he hasn't made it to his 21st birthday yet. Or maybe he is just slow in developing a mature outlook on life. I went through a stage like this when I was in my late teens. Then I grew up. I can tell you that when I seperated from my family,it was because I was hurt and wanting to hurt those around me. I alternately felt like I didn't deserve love because I had such low self esteem, or like I deserved more then I was getting. Either way, wheather conciously or subconciously, I wanted to hurt the people who cared about me. I think a lot of kids go through this, maybe as part of puberty. The fact that your brother has added drugs into it doesnt help matters. I don't know what to tell you. I hope things get better for you, though  |
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Date: 7/18/2004 10:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 15279
Thanks everyone. I have moved on in my own way but it just breaks my heart. He just turned 19, and has spent most of his teens misdiagnosed as hyper, now bi-polar. My brother is a very inteligent sweet,person, and this is not the person I thought I knew and loved. I want to help him, but I know he can't be helped. I went through this too, but it took becoming a mom to get my life right. I guess I need him more than he needs me, and that is really hard to admit. I spent my whole childhood being like a mom to him, and now I guess it's like a kick in the teeth. I can let it go but it hurts... Thanks everyone..... Oh and there are some people on here that know him I think.... Amanda  |
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