Date: 12/9/2003 7:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
let me get this straight, you're 14 and he is 21? Ok, just be friends!!! Or at least wait until you are 17. You are way too young  |
Date: 12/9/2003 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Ummmm...He is an ADULT..You are still a CHILD..You are lightyears apart on the maturity level honey.  |
Date: 12/9/2003 7:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 62486
Hunny, your 14 and he is 21!!! He can be nice, but he isn't very smart and he must be some kind of a pervert, no offense. #1 he can go to jail #2 he is much stronger and older than you #3 No!!! what are you thinking!!!! :-) ok, being 14yrs old and liking, or concidering dating someone that age is not good. Trust me, I have friends who have not been smart about dating a guy with a big age difference, it was pretty scary for them. What does you mom/dad/gaurdian say about it? I can't tell you what to do, but I can certainly tell you that I think, you need to look out for yourself better. BAD IDEA, VERY BAD!!! even if he is a nice guy, it is to risky, it would be different if you were like 18. I hope this didn't sound rude, i'm just lookin' out for ya, I see trouble with this subject. And a guy who is 21 wanting to date a 14yr old what does that make you think about him?!?! Hunny, make a better choice. :-) Please keep posting, I'm always open ears. Hope I helped!!!!
Luv YA Girly,
Rosey |
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Date: 12/9/2003 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Uh... unless you lied in your profile, you're only 14 or 15 years old. He's 7 years older making him 21 or 22 years old.... that also means your "jail bait" and illegal for him to date. No. I don't think you should be dating him, I think you should both look for someone your own age. Scall |
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Date: 12/10/2003 12:05:00 AM ( Admin )
You should stay away from him if you know what's good for him. He is an adult and anything between you would not go good for him. |
Date: 12/10/2003 11:45:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
I would wonder what is wrong with him that he cannot date a woman of his own age. Usually guys go for young ones because they are very niave and the older one knows he can get away with more crap cause the young one doesnt know any better. Be very cautious of his motives.  |
Date: 12/10/2003 4:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
I think your to young for him he can get into a whole lot of trobble stay friends with him once your 18 everything will be fine you can be with him I have hear of couples that are like 20 years age difference but they bare all over the ages of 20 I know it sux to let him go but your idea on guys could change over the years pleas just stay friends with him.  |
Date: 12/10/2003 11:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 51827
It just want work legally, Wait until your older, if it is meant to be then it will happen. Are you 18 yet......Cause then it would not matter, but if you are young then you have a lot of maturing to do and you will change a lot from who your are now, mature wise.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 1:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
Any 21-year-old who'd date a 14-year-old is either a pedo or downright stupid. Listen to what Rad says.  |
Date: 12/11/2003 1:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
sorry but... noooo way... and he should know better. imo  |
Date: 12/11/2003 4:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
You are about 16 so he would be about 23, correct? Honey, I don't care what anyone says about age not being a factor, in this case IT IS! He is an adult and any adult who is interested in a 16 year old is not alright in the head. You have not even met this guy yet, and I really feel it would be in your best interest if it stayed that way. There are plenty of guys your own age or much closer to it that would be better for you. You will be taken advantage of in this situation. Don't be taken in by this  |
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Date: 12/11/2003 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
PS, I know I got the age wrong, but that just makes me think even less of this guy that you are even younger than I thought |
57350 Category:(General Advice) Created:(12/9/2003 6:40:00 PM)