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Why are people so OBSESSED with being skinny? by Crystal Peak

  Author:  40530  Category:(Discussion) Created:(12/3/2003 8:29:00 AM)
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I have a friend, we'll call her Ann. Ann is roughly 5'6 and she's about 105 pounds. She's got VERY long legs, but they're literally about the circumpherence of the top of my arms. She has no womanly figure (no breasts, no butt, not even the tiniest hint of hips) and, her stomach goes in instead of being flat or going out and you can see her ribs clearly.

She thinks she needs to lose weight

All the girls who see her getting changed think she's too skinny. When she wears tight jeans/trousers, some of the lads murmer about how skinny she is. But 80% of boys in our year at school think she's got a great figure.

I have another friend, we'll call her Becci. Becci is a little shorter than me, and I don't know how much she weighs but I think it's about 120 pounds. She's got no breasts, but she's got a waist and hips. Her legs are very toned and muscaly because she swims so much, but they're not fat. She has a tummy that is squishy and soft but flat.

She wants to look like Ann

Most of the girls want to look like Ann, but Ann looks horrible when you see her getting changed! Sure, she can wear the tiniest clothes, but she looks disgusting underneath them! Ann won't eat anything more than a salad batch at school, and I doubt she eats much more at home. Why is everyone obsessed with being skinny?

Peace and Love and Chicken Burgers,

Crystal Peak

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Date: 12/3/2003 9:30:00 AM  From Authorid: 59418    i think being TOO skinny looks horrible...but some people always want to be thinner...even if they are already!! Strange  
Date: 12/3/2003 9:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 53284    She has a body image problem. She needs to get help so it doesn't escalate. As a man, I like women to look healthy. I don't care for the aneroxic look that seems so fashionable these days. Although many heathy people lack excess body fat, they also are not unusually thin. There is a huge difference between health and thin.  
Date: 12/3/2003 9:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 46585    It's what society feeds our mind with as being beauty. Some people don't realize that beauty comes from within. Besides, I actually think skinny women are unattractive. I prefer a women with a little meat on her bones. Especially when it comes to a physical relationship. - Faded Fiction
Date: 12/3/2003 9:47:00 AM  From Authorid: 41708    Easy. Modern day entertainment and it's obbsession with skinny women has caused the society to want to acchieve that at all costs. This in turn make even the smallest of girls want to be smaller, even if it is unhealthy. Not only do most of these girls look great the way they are, they would be making themselves look worse by losing weight. They don't seem to understand that though and it is a shame.  
Date: 12/3/2003 9:53:00 AM  From Authorid: 56293    Ah, why would anyone want to look like that? It's disgusting. It's nice to have some junk in the trunk..  
Date: 12/3/2003 9:56:00 AM  From Authorid: 19092    **King opens trunk** "Yep, lotsa junk in there..."  
Date: 12/3/2003 10:08:00 AM  From Authorid: 42522    I think people who purposely starve themselves to fit a certain "image" needs to step back and take a look at themselves. When I was in 7th grade I was 5'6, and 102 lbs, but that was because I an ocd and I wouldnt allow myself to touch anything, for fear I might get sick. Now im a healthy weight, and very happy. I wouldnt change my weight for anyone.  
Date: 12/3/2003 10:20:00 AM  From Authorid: 15228    It's weird. On one hand we are obsessed with being skinny, on the other hand about half of society is obese! My daughter has a very good figure, she wears a size 9, yet she always wears a baggy zip up jacket because she isn't a size 0 like her friend who is sickly looking. With her friend it is natural because her mother has the exact same figure..  
Date: 12/3/2003 10:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 58611    Well all you have to do is turn on the tv or look at any magazine on the stands and see why girls are so obsessed with being waif thin. But you know what, that is not natural! With the exception of some women who just happen to have high metabolims or inhereted that type of body of course. I think it is sad, and I have even made a post or two about this exact same subject. I really wish more women would embrace themselves for who the are and understand that they are that way for a reason.  
Date: 12/3/2003 11:04:00 AM  From Authorid: 4887    i agree with everyone elses replies.   
Date: 12/3/2003 12:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 52746    I'd say she doesn't need to lose weight. I'd die for her figure! I think, as it is with human nature... the grass is always greener.  
Date: 12/3/2003 12:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 25756    It's because of the media...and it annoys me! What's wrong with being a lil' squishy? :-D As long as you're healthy...what's the problem? Much of the media makes girls believe that skinny = healthy, and, really, it does not!  
Date: 12/3/2003 12:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    Maybe she has Body Dysmorphic Disorder.. I'm 5'5" and my goal weight is 100.. I weigh 132 now.. (there ya go.. I don't know why.. everyone wants to be thin.)  
Date: 12/3/2003 12:21:00 PM  From Authorid: 62146    I think I am fat I use to be so skinny I look back at photos of me when I was 14 and I can see I looked way to skinny people use to ask me if a had an eating disorder. So I got the hint I was too skinny I did nothing though I just caught up natuarly. And then I got to normal wait and then my mum started calling me fat so now I am self consious and eeeeeerrrrr. The thing that ticks me of is that guys can get away with being fat and girls have this recamended size that we all have to be. Cus peopele gave me trobble because I was to skinny now I am not skinny enaf an people just give us a break already.  
Date: 12/3/2003 12:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 58334    I think your friend skinny is unhealtyh. Skinny is ok as long as you actually have SOME fat and muscle. But I guess people thik skinny just looks better. I'm not stick thin and I am happy w/ how I look. I think it has to do w/ peer pressure  
Date: 12/3/2003 1:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 46527    Far better to have a few curves...in my opinion, but then I'm biased, I have FAR too many curves...LOL!  
Date: 12/3/2003 1:25:00 PM  From Authorid: 16155    ew...i wouldnt want to have no butt, breasts or hips. Being skinny is fine and all but some people over do it  
Date: 12/3/2003 1:51:00 PM  From Authorid: 62410    "Why is everyone obsessed with being skinny?" You already answered it only I think your percentage was a little shy... "But 80% of boys in our year at school think she's got a great figure." Media has glamorized skinniness and men want it -- about 99.9% of them (I believe). Scall
Date: 12/3/2003 2:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 25756    Oh, I don't know Scall....a lot of the guys I've talked to said they really don't like the super skinnyness...lol...one guy in particular: "If I'm gonna date a girl, she's gotta have some luurve handles" lmao! :-D  
Date: 12/3/2003 4:58:00 PM  From Authorid: 53054    The media has portrayed people as HAVING to be skinny...but some people have problems which are not alwyas brought on by the media, but by emotional problems....people in the general population dont help the problem at all because many people tease people who are NOT skinny...and this is wrong, but wont change, which makes people want to loose more weight...its just a vigerous cycle! *hugz*  
Date: 12/3/2003 5:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 62146    Some guys say they like curves so I have heard anyway I guess we need I guys opinyion here. But ok I have a friend right guys call her kankels and say she is fat and stuff and a guy in our class was giveing her dirty looks when she ate on a class trip so she told me and some friends anyway I was thinking but why dose he not do that to the guys it anoyes me acctaully how guys get to get away with it and girls get evil eyes if they are either to skinny or fat.  
Date: 12/3/2003 9:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 62410    LOL Agent Q! Okay - maybe 98% %-) Scall

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