Date: 5/18/2003 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
You know how you can tell if a guy is a good guy or not... how he treats your friends and family. Obviously this guy isn't too nice to your friends then he'll probably end up being not too nice to you in the long run. Also, getting attached so quick is bad news, I don't know this guy or anything, but it sounds like the makeing of an abusive relationship. Abusers usually move quick and try to get you attached right away so that you won't want to get away from him, and he can do whatever he feels with you. My advice, if you're not happy, and you're even the slightest bit afraid of this guy, get out ASAP. Tell him it's not gonna work out, be nice about it, but maybe steer clear of him for a while afterwards. Good-Luck, I hope everything works out ok. Erin-  |
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Date: 5/18/2003 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 62150
Ok...well you are probably in High School right? You arent married you you are free to do what you want. If he is as bad as you say I dont understand why you started dating BUT that isnt important now...what is important is you and what you want to do. Guys like that are mostly talk. I say find a nice guy that likes the things that you liek and you have things in common. Its not easy to make th right choices but you'll feel better later once you do. |
Date: 5/18/2003 6:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61673
thanks erin. the thing is he tells me things that are personal to him and he tells me he would never hurt me. he didnt go out with anyone for a long time b/c hes been hurt so many times in the past or something but i dont know. im not really afraid of HIM, im afraid that if i break up with you he'll spread rumors about me or something. ok thanks again!  |
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Date: 5/18/2003 6:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61673
62150...he was different before we started dating. now he seems obsessed. he doesnt have to go to school until 9 and i havent been to school in the past couple of days and hes called me every morning and woke me up at 8. then he calls like 3 more times after he gets home from school. hes changed now. |
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Date: 5/19/2003 10:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 19625
Don't worry about him spreading rumors. If anyone believes them, then obviously they're stupid in the first place, plus if he does, they'll be gone pretty soon, Rumors don't usually last too long, as soon as someone does something stupid, or whatever, everyone will forget any of the dumb things he said about you. Erin- |
Date: 5/19/2003 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
It's time to let him go. A relationship with someone who is that insecure will be awful. He sounds so negative, putting down your friends and stuff. I don't see anything positive coming from your dating someone like that.  |
Date: 5/19/2003 10:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 56489
I totally agree with Wild Bob, nothing realy sonunds good about this, so there for nothing good will come of it.  |
Date: 5/23/2003 9:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 61897
I went out with a guy JUST like what you're describing. You've started dating for only a week and you're ALREADY noticing this negative behavior and it already sounds pretty bad, you need to get rid of him ASAP. There is NO reason why a gf should feel afraid of her bf, that's a really bad sign you should listen to. The reason why he calls so constantly is because he thinks you're up to no good, because HE probably is (that's what was going on in my situation).  |
