Date: 4/8/2003 5:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
Oh, hun, I really dont know how to help! I am here to talk, though!  |
Date: 4/8/2003 6:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57471
Thanks so much Jennaluv. I am so confused I really need someone to talk to sometimes. Msg. me later if you have time. -Jenn  |
Date: 4/8/2003 6:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 24845
First of all Jennifer, you are too special to think that no one is out there for you. Everyone has a lid to thier pot. There is someone out there made specifically for you. You just may not have met them yet. As far as this guy goes, be friends with him, work on your self-esteem. It helps to love yourself to be loved by someone else. You are worth the effort. I know what you mean by saying that the wrong guys are attracted to you. I've had that problem. You should try something. Build up your confidence, tell yourself your beautiful and smart and worthy of attention from a guy you like, and get noticed, when you show that "light" others see it and respond to it. Trust me, I'm right. I know what I'm talking about. Write little messages to yourself, put them on the mirror in your bathroom, on the kitchen cupboards, the fridge, anywhere where you see it everyday. Read them, know that they are true. You'll know because you wrote them. You are smart, worthy of people's attention. Write down the things that you like about yourself, then read them everyday, and before you know it, people will see a change. Try it, what could it hurt. I wish you luck hon, I know that you'll get the guy you want, or the one that is meant for you, which could be one and the same.  Good luck. God Bless.  |
Date: 4/8/2003 6:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
I think your right, if he has another thing on the side, you don't want to break it up. But you say he likes you? I'd say try to let it go, I think he should make a move soon but I also think you should move on. You seem like a sweet person. Good things come to those who wait, trust me it takes awhile, for some longer then others best of luck to you on this!  |
Date: 4/9/2003 9:05:00 AM
From Authorid: 11097
From the conversations we have had and the kindness you have shown me, please dont ever think that nobody will ever love you or marry you. Your a real sweetheart and you deserve to be happy. If this boy is not being direct with you, then its better that you keep him a friend. The best relationships come from friendships. If you dont let something go that is "ok" then how can anything "good" or "great" come along. Most of the time we are so fixed on one specific thing, we let many oppurtunities and friendships pass us by. I am alot like you are, in high school I had my close friends and that was it. I never really had a boyfriend, just lots of guy friends...and even that faded for me. But I waited and was patient and I found someone, by giving them a chance. I believe there is someone for everyone, if we give time a chance. Enjoy what you have now and do the best you can with what is given to you. I am glad you have started to get help and talk things out, thats the best thing to do, never keep anything bottled up. I am always here for you if you need me, and know that life only gets better *hugs* love ur sis  |
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Date: 4/9/2003 5:01:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57471
Everyone thanks! I was begining to think that this post wasn't going to get very far. You guys mean a lot to me especially when I am having hard times like this. I am trying hard to keep happy but my depression seems like the easy way to go even though thats not what I want. I am going to take your advice Angel. Thanks a lot it means so much to me to have your support. I think I'm gonna wait for a couple of weeks and see what happens with the guy I like. I think that it will be ok and that if he chooses her over me then he does it just shows me a lot about him. If he picks me it will show me even more about him. Che-- You mean a lot to me and you are the best sister I have ever had. It means so much to me that you are here for me and I have been trying to keep my attitude positive. It's been working and I'm gonna wait a couple weeks and see what happens from there. Today he totally ignored me and that's not really like him but I think hes a little disapointed over the way I've been depressed. I don't know if he'll ever talk to me again but I'm gonna wait and see what he shows me as to what kind of person he is. I've been taking this to God and he is going to take care of me. He always has and he always will because I love him and he loves me. They always say good things come to those who wait and I am willing to wait to see what God has in store for me. I'm trying hard to work with what I got but like I said God will take care of me. Life goes on and what doesn't kill me can only make me stronger and I'm not planning on dieing anytime soon. Thanks for your support and I'll keep the comunications lines open. Lots of Love to you all, Jennifer Anna |
