Date: 8/5/2002 5:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 49101
Aww, how sad. I remember those kinds of heartaches. HONESTLY, there is nothing that will make the pain stop except to let time heal... Good luck, and best wishes...  |
Date: 8/5/2002 5:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 54060
thanks..just the thing is i have to see him wen. at school..an im afraid that ill just loose it...sry it was so long..but thats the only way i knew to tell it  |
Date: 8/5/2002 5:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Okay, this is how I feel about this situation, sounds like this guy was a major jerk and loser. Obvisibly, he didn't care too much about you since he was out cheating on you 3-4 times or how many times he did. I know how you feel, losing someone like that is very painful. How old are you, may I ask? He was your first love, and first loves dont usually work out, I don't know..that's how I feel sometimes. You need to move on. You can find someone SO much better than him. How long were you together? 7 months you said? It does that a long long time to get over someone that you love, but trust me, you need to find someone else and it sounds like it's a good idea that this relationship had ended cause he would be more likely to cheat on you again and again. Do you get what I'm saying here? I feel that I'm real bad at giving advices, this is how I feel about all this. You're much better than him and I know that you will find someone better. If you need to talk, u're welcome to message me. *PunkStarChik*  |
Date: 8/5/2002 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 56369
awww poor darlin.. He is Such a BEEP BEEP BEEP grrr he makes me mad... his so inconsiderate of your feelins.. and that chik on the net is just as bad.. AND the *BEEP* his got now.. awww gurly u always have us here at USM.. U can talk 2 me anytime u want.. I cant believe he could do that to you, String you along like that for so long. Keep your head up though, these things always work out 4 the best. If you can be strong about this, its gunna hurt him more then it will you... I mean he just lost a decent girl, His gunna carry alot of guilt for the way he treated that girl, the list is endless.. This is your chance to pick up and move on, to your advantage.. of course the heart ache will last for a while, but like Miss C said, only time will heal that  aww hun im here 4 ya if ya need 2 talk.. -honeysoul  |
Date: 8/5/2002 5:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 56057
Gingie, our first love is the hardest. I don't know how old you are, but I remember my first true love. We were together for four years though. He cheated on me (several times)and hurt me alot. It does feel like they have ripped your heart out. It feels like there is no one else in the whole world you would rather be with than them, even though if you think about it, they have hurt you more than anyone ever has. You know you will get over him, and find someone else and you will look back one day and say you know I may have loved him, but now I know what it feels like to be loved back. And that is the most important thing.There is nothing more special than having someone love you so much and you loving them just as much. Sweetie I know you are hurting now but you need to take this as an experience and grow from it. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but you will probably go through this pain several times in your life, until you meet the most special, precious man who you will marry and create a wonderful family, I know, I did, and if it can happen to me, it will happen to you. Just take this experience and grow from it. Big Bear Hugs.....Boomie Bear....  |
