Date: 12/18/2001 11:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 27046
Sister??  |
Date: 12/18/2001 11:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 40359
No....Just someone who kinda took up with the family. She is like a member now after so long....LoveGir9  |
Date: 12/18/2001 11:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 45681
Stay away from her. Just cause others like her does not mean you have to. don't except anymore invites from her. Good Luck...Take Care..~~~~***DANICA***~~~~  |
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Date: 12/18/2001 11:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 45681
Have you told your parents or someone?. ~~~~***DANICA***~~~~ |
Date: 12/18/2001 11:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 26452
I knew a few "friends" like that grrrr people sometimes make me sooo mad! & im very glad I was finaly able to get rid of em lol.im so sorry that you have to deal with this,& you could try staying away from her & ignore her,tell an adult,or (1 that i dont do very often,but have a few times) give back to her what she gives to you,if shes nice be nice,if shes putting you down,do the samething right back.  |
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Date: 12/19/2001 12:04:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 40359
That's just it...I am an adult. I shouldn't have to put up with this....But somehow I've fallen into that silly high-school game with her and I don't like it. She's at every family function, every time I try to volunteer she's already there, etc. |
Date: 12/19/2001 12:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 37900
If she dies first, you will probably still hate her for what she has done to you. It seems to me you are allowing this person to control much of your thought life. Are you assuming she should like you, and that if she knew you better, she would? For whatever reason, she is choosing to treat you differently; you are not automatically obligated to do the same to her. By hating her, you suffer two ways: you allow her to dominate your thoughts and your body suffers from the excess stress. Quit speaking of her as "friend"; downgrade her to "acquaintance." Limit your contact with her to only the most vital functions; even then, avoid her unless absolutely necessary. (Even poison must be handled occasionally.) Your personalities may never mesh. That doesn't mean you deserve what you're receiving, but it does mean some people will not like you regardless of your intentions. I wish you well. Alfrowi.  |
Date: 12/19/2001 1:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 47266
ok, listen carefully: first, you take ketchup, shaving creme, whipped creme, and anything else thats messy and while she's sleeping, u go up to her, and u make her pretty in your own way w/ all those!!!  lol j/k. i would talk to your mom or your dad or someone about what's she's doing. if that doesnt work, then i'd just ignore her i guess or pray that she dies of a diseace or something LOL j/k. sorry that was mean i know |
Date: 12/19/2001 3:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 39043
I know exactly how ya feel. I have a "friend" like that too. we were bestfriends for 2 yrs. She treated me like crap..thought she was better then me..specially in looks. She is the skinny type and she thinks every guy is checking her out..and not one would look my way, that is how she acts towards me..or she thinks she is always right when she isn't. I never realized it til this yr. Some of my friends could tell and my family could but I guess I was either just blinded from it or i didn't wanna see. I realized it this yr not to long ago. What I do..is i try to stay away from her. If she calls and wants to do something I just say I can't. She likes rubbing things in my face. It makes me so mad..sometimes I can feel the anger inside..and that's not good. So what I do i just try and stay away from her as much as I can, and as for the Anger..I ask God to forgive me for feeling this way and ask him to take it away. I don't have it now. When i think about her tho i almost start to get mad but then i just realize it ain't worth it. Just do whatever you can to stay away from her. If you except her invitations then its your fault for putting urself through it. I know it is hard to say no, specially when no one else see's it. But you know when ur being treated badly..so do something about it. Just stay away from her as much as you can. Learn to say "NO"! It gets easy believe me!  |
