Date: 12/18/2001 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 32613
well if u are SUPER quiet and keep to urself all the time then that's a problem because ppl think that u don't like neone or are stuck up, atleast that's how i feel about really quiet ppl, until i get to know them ofcourse =) luv  |
Date: 12/18/2001 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
Well i dont know i cant help you out either, im kinda quite and shy myself but i think dark angel has a point..i think people think you are stuck up if you are quiet..  |
Date: 12/18/2001 9:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 16155
I know exactly what you mean. Im really quiet to and people who always call me shy get really on my nerves, because im not shy I just dont have anything to say to them.  |
Date: 12/18/2001 9:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38119
Then that's their problem if they think I'm stuck up.  |
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Date: 12/18/2001 9:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38119
I know BabyGirl. It's not so much that I'm shy; I just don't have much to say. |
Date: 12/18/2001 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 46005
Well see----- the silent type scare people- becaue you dont know what they are thinking,a nd they say the silent ones are the ones to watch out for--- example. my friend Lisa was sitting in class one day- her assigned seat was right in front of this guy Bobby, he never spoke, had no friends, and was really strange, well during class one day he pulled out a pair of scissors, and started cutting himself, I mean blood went every where....... he didnt even act like it hurt, they rushed him to he hospital and he never returned to school again, it was said his parents put him in a home.... so next time someone ask why are you so quite, say dont worry Im not thinking about killing you or myself... peace.  |
Date: 12/18/2001 10:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 35629
lmao i hear ya sometimes people do freak it is just thier problem i would usually just say well i have learned alot by listening and i am listening now, so buzz of.hehehehe Bet they would freak if ya told a chatter box why don't ya ever shut up.lol I have done a friend of mine's hubby that way.He just sort of flapped his lips and walked away.He is always talking just to hear his own voice and to gripe so it felt really good.  |
Date: 12/19/2001 12:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 7089
god, btdt...if ppl see me as a snob, let 'em...i was shy most of my life but these days i'm just reserved is all, & most of the time find it kinda hard to warm up to anyone. i won't be anyone's bestest buddy in one day or anything, that's just the way i am, & know a few ppl i just wish would shut up already, but am too polite to say anything til they annoy me enuff. pssst, if you wanna make the chatterboxes really freak, stare deep into their eyes & slowly grin. works for me. cheers,  |
Date: 12/19/2001 6:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 47235
I hear ya!! I'm a quiet person myself and I'm asked that ALL THE TIME!! It does get annoying after awhile. Just grin and bear it!! 'Razzles' (Is that 'bear' right or is it 'bare'?)  |
Date: 12/19/2001 6:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 25828
LOL..i was and am like this...i'm thinking most of the time, always aware, observing...and it's true what they say, don't mess with the quiet ones. 8-) i prefer to be left alone. i don't know your age, but as you get older adults respect it more, and you don't hear those kinds of comments as much 8-)  |
Date: 12/19/2001 7:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 11091
I am quiet also. I also have social anxiety. People always act like somethings wrong with me. Theres nothing wrong, I'm just quiet.  |
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Date: 12/19/2001 10:19:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38119
Razzles, you spelled it right. Heather, I'm 22 and I was asked why I'm so quiet by someone who was older than me. Tugger, that's how I am. It takes me a while to warm up to some people. |
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Date: 12/19/2001 1:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 44477
People used to ask me the same thing back in Elementary and Middle school. In high school they just left me alone. It was really hard to change back then because always people expect you to be the same quiet person you always were. College is a different story, there are new people and I really have become a lot more social. |
Date: 5/26/2005 9:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 7574
I'm pretty quiet, and this guy told me I was wonderful except I needed to talk more. It's just weird talking to a group of people I've never met before..I don't really like large groups either.  |
