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Date: 3/26/2001 8:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 11723
Have them shot! J/K Honesty is the best policy. You have to do what is best for you, your husband, and your children. From the sounds of it you have overcome a great deal of problems in your marriage, which is wonderful. If you are still have slight problems though...deal with them before you start fixing things for your in-laws. Honesty works best...if you don't feel there is anything you can do for them..tell them so. They might get hurt, upset, mad...but you can't please all the people all the time. Have they been there for you? Have all they've ever done for you is caused problems? If they have been there for you...then be gentle about it. If not...tell them where to go.  |
Date: 3/26/2001 8:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 20873
I didnt have any alcohol problems nor domestic problems I commend yall for counciling!!!!!!!!! But the in-laws yes we had those problems so ya know what we did??? MOVED out of state! lol, seriously and it worked! good luck to you! DINA  |
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Date: 3/26/2001 9:22:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 30050
They have never been there for us when we really needed them, and yes all they have ever done is cause us problems they put things in my husbands head and at times I think he kinda beleives them sometimes. And as for moving we have 2 years to go till we will have our house paid off then I want to put it on the Market and buy something nice in a different location. ...THANKS FOR YOUR ADVICE I REALLY NEEDED IT!!! |
Date: 3/26/2001 10:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 29526
try letting them down easy.star dragon  |
| Date: 3/26/2001 10:30:00 PM From Authorid: 31195 I have a sister in this spot! She listen but dont get in it if they ask her what they should do she just says I dont no. Maybe that could help. You cant put them out of your life and you cant help them they have to help their selfs. countrygal7906 |
Date: 3/27/2001 4:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 31014
in-laws like yours make me steam!!! they cause all manner of hassle then just expect you to sort out their hassle...i feel sorry for your problem, but just put up with it for the next few years then you can move away and you will no that by helping them wen they didnt deserve your help makes you a better person then them lot put together.....of course if you really cant stand these people just give them BAD advice sit back and watch the fireworks lol i no u wont do this but its what we all want to do to people like this aint it? good luck Blitterbabe x  |
Date: 3/27/2001 9:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 277
Tell them that you don't want to pick sides and get in the middle of it all. Let them know that you want to stay neutral parties. You can't be put in the middle if you don't allow it.  |
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Date: 3/27/2001 8:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 30050
I have really enjoyed all the good advice I needed it I got areal good Laugh from Blitter babe x I have really thought about doing this but then my better side kicks me really hard!!! THANKS ALOT POUTWRP |
Date: 3/28/2001 7:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 31515
There is not an easy way to solve your problem with your inlaws. It almost sounds like they are jealous of you and your husband, because your marriage survived your problems. Now they think that if they can drag you all into they problems it will start all over again for you and your husband. The best thing to do is refer them to your counselor it sounds like they could really use the advice. Read my post " Evil Grandma ", then you will see that we also have trouble with inlaws..... Queen B  |
Date: 3/28/2001 9:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 13619
Just simply vist them shortly and go about your buisness. Try to keep busy with family activities and don't give them the time to drag ya. |
Date: 3/28/2001 1:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 17513
I am in the same dilemma like you, sweetie. I am getting married in a few months and both his mother and my mother hate each other. My mother did what your husband's inlaws did (she created stories and lies about him and got back to his mother) she doesn't want anything to do with my mother. *sigh* the way I see it is this, you married your husband and he married you. You are one and no matter what they (his family) say or do, you two will be together forever and when they are gone, you still be together. Don't let them tear you guys apart because even though that's his family...he has a new family to take care of and that's you and your two children.  |
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Date: 3/28/2001 8:04:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 30050
I'm glad we are not the only ones going through this stuff and I really am pleased to receive all this advice I've even been using some of it now!!! Sincerely:POUTWRP |
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